I don't deserve you.

When one gets something that one thinks does not deserve, how happy one is. If the same is applied to a relationship, it also translates to happiness. But here the feeling of 'having got more than what is deserved' should be from both sides.(Do not consider this an inferiority complex). If the same is from both sides, then the intensity of love and dedication increases.

The chances of doubts about the relationship, cropping up also vanish. Acceptance goes up as it is one's own choice (and in fact more than that). Although on the face of it, this may seem selfish, but it is a positive intention. There is a condition to it also, that is--it should happen naturally. One cannot force it to happen. Also it is better and more enjoyable when it is natural.

There is another perspective in which the situation turns out to be negative. It is when fear comes into picture and one reacts in the fear of losing.In trying to suppress the other, the feeling that was from both the sides is converted to a single sided feeling and the relationship sours up. Although the fear of losing is there in both scenarios, but in one case, one becomes humble, and in the other reacts/holds the other person. Generally the former scenario happens more as the ego comes down to zero level. There can be change when a confirmed possession happens. (Like marriage or public acceptance of the other as partner/Legalizing a relationship)

One has to be composed and not affected by doubts created by mind and should carry the same feeling in a composed manner to maintain the sweetness in the relationship.

Relationship can be any of love pairs, friends, business partners or any more.