Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Goal - Search, Follow & Stick

Clarity, clarity, clarity, thats what you do all the time for "it".

1. Search what exactly you are, what would suit you, what you would love to do all your life & what your aptitude is pointing towards. You can use one method. Take a paper, divide it into two areas, mark one "I like" and the other one "I don't like" and then sincerely write whatever comes to your mind, whatever means purely whatever(may not be related to professional areas of work). After this, give yourself time. Let the thoughts stay in your mind for some time. Now you see which streams are already existing or you will have to develop a new stream of work. Feel free and be creative to do anything(existing or developing new).

2. Follow and Stick to the goal you have decided. It will not be easy to give a start, so you will have to gather all your energy and will power to do it. There will be times when many elements will be working against you to de-motivate and make you fail, to make you succumb to them but you have to follow the goal. At times, there will be luring opportunities to take you away from your goal. Nature will keep check on you that you really want it at all the times the same goal, so that it can provide you all the support(after all if you are not clear, nature would not lose a chance to take it back, so stay clear at "all times"). You may have to wait sometimes, move sometimes, take few steps back or even take a left turn and change your path for a while, but your eye should be on it(Never worry in such times, these are going to come).

The best books that link to these are "Johanathan Livingstone Seagull" by Richard Bach which shows the fight against everything to achieve & "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho which describes the goal following and times faced while following it.

One more thing one should take care is to stay "GENUINE" at all times.

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Patience

They say “Patience outcomes to a sweet fruit” “ Sabra ka phal meetha hota hai”

How do u keep it? Will it yield a fruit? When will it end? Itnee queries…. Ya aur bhee….Are your efforts in right direction to yield results? This you have to continuously judge and keep Patience. Stay, stay, stay and stick for success to achieve the sweet fruit. There will be moments when attractions will lure u, there will be time when u will feel frustration, u will feel low, even if the butterflies increase their movement in ur stomach, still u have to stay. If it were so easy to keep Patience, so its existence won’t be there & it would have been another instinct, so it has to be developed and made a habit. Success comes against all odds and patience helps persevere and reach it.